Growing up in Philadelphia and going to Catholic school, I had many Italian friends who celebrated Christmas Eve with a meal known as the Feast of the Seven Fishes, or what they simply called “The Seven Fishes.”
While my mom sometimes made fish or scallops at Christmastime, we were German/Irish/English (and Episcopalian), and had no such multi-course, fish-heavy feasting tradition. I admired my friends with their mysterious and ritualized seven-fish dinners, their stuffed clams and fried flounder and their mothers’ spaghetti sauces and cheesecakes. While the specific menus varied among my friends’ families, “seven fishes” was consistently a mixture of cooking methods and fish and shellfish.
Known formally as la Vigilia di Natale or, more simply, la Vigilia (the vigil), the Feast of the Seven Fishes is a southern-Italian tradition with murky origins. The numerology and fishology are usually explained something like this: seven for the seven sacraments of the Catholic church, and fish because Christmas Eve is a vigilia di magro, or sacred feast day, on which eating meat is traditionally prohibited. Or the seven is a reminder of the seven deadly sins or the last seven of the Ten Commandments. Whatever the real reason, seven is a number both highly symbolic and big enough to guarantee a serious feast.
Fast-forward about 20 years. I am living in Eugene, Oregon, with my then-fiancé, who grew up half-Italian near New Haven, Connecticut. What he remembers as his family’s Christmas Eve tradition is spaghetti and lobster tails, cooked by his Neapolitan grandmother and later his mother, using the small lobster tails called langostini or “slipper tails.”
So one autumn night, we make his family’s traditional lobster pasta for dinner. It is wonderful; the lobster tails simmering in his mother’s spaghetti sauce give the dish a sweet, rich flavor, while the sauce itself makes the lobster meat so tender it really does melt in your mouth. And we are amazed that these tiny lobster tails are plentiful and available for the low price of three dollars a pound.
That same year, we are planning to cook our first Christmas Eve feast together. His sister and her husband are coming, as are assorted friends. We decide to make lobster, but we soon learn that our menu is in jeopardy: those lobster tails, such a bargain a few months earlier, are closer to $35 a pound. We can only stare wistfully into the shellfish case at the fish market; we have eight other people to feed and we’re just out of graduate school. I even consider buying a case of lobster tails from a wholesaler, but at almost $200, it’s way out of our range, even if I could find someone to split the order with me.
I had shared my sad tale of woe at every seafood outlet in Eugene (and probably called every one in Oregon) before a clerk at Eugene’s Fisherman's Market offered a suggestion: Replace the lobster with Dungeness crab, which was local, in season, and therefore affordable.
That was 12 years ago, but Dungeness is still relatively affordable during the Christmas holidays, retailing in the Pacific Northwest for about $3 to $4 a pound. The Dungeness season begins December 1 and continues through mid-August, with the peak harvest taking place during the first eight weeks. And it is yummy, rich and meaty like lobster, although slightly lighter.
On the night of our Christmas Eve party we feasted, all right; in fact, some of us had some pretty wild dreams after eating so much rich food. Since then, the annual dinner has evolved to include not just crab but clams, shrimp, and salmon.
Shopping, prepping, and cooking the feast takes several hours. It sounds daunting, but I enjoy spending all that time in the kitchen; it’s a chance to unwind, to visit with my family, and to create something more than just a meal. Besides, even with all those courses, the goal isn’t to rush through it all but to take it slow.
Here’s the menu, plus a few preparation tips.
All of this is served with bread and lots and lots of red wine (or sparkling cider for the children). And after so much feasting, dessert can just be a cookie, a piece of chocolate, or some sorbet.
If you’ve been counting, you’ve probably noticed that my menu quits after five seafood dishes instead of the requisite seven. It’s a lot of food, especially when you’re used to making a complete meal out of half a crab or a plate of spaghetti.
But this year, I think, I will go for seven and make some tilapia and maybe fried clams for the last two, as my daughter Clio loves fried clams and I love tilapia. Or maybe stuffed baked clams and scallops.
My ex-husband and I have been divorced for almost five years, but we have two daughters together, so we’ll always be family. (I’ve also made a commitment to protect both his children and his grandmother’s spaghetti-sauce recipe forever.) At this point, we could probably afford at least one or two lobster tails — they only weigh a few ounces, after all — but we like our crab version better.
So the tradition continues: Either he or I make our Northwest version of the Seven Fishes every year on Christmas Eve. Our daughters and our family of friends count on it.
Zanne Miller is a writer and mother of two in Eugene who has already begun planning this year’s Christmas feast.
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1. by Sean on Dec 17, 2008 at 2:23 PM PST
I grew up in an Italian family, all southern Italy, and in particular the branch that hails from Abruzzo adheres to this tradition every year. The two sine qua nons of the evening are spaghetti all’aglio e olio ai alici (spaghetti with olive oil and garlic with anchovies) and baccalà, salt cod that’s been reconstituted and baked in tomatoes. For years I’d ask other Italian-Americans, who invariably looked at me like I had two heads -- except the other abruzzesi.
2. by janelle on Dec 18, 2008 at 9:09 PM PST
Mmmmmmm; well I better get started. Having married a half-Italian myself:) I love all the traditions and sauces and emphasis on taking the meals slow. Thanks for sharing!
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